"You fight a lot" someone once told me. "You dramatize things" someone else told me... And i surely didn't stop thinking about it untill i wrote this, to myself first so that i can understand why i am facing these accusations, and to them so that they can stop wondering why..

 

I don't think that fights are hazardous phenomenons. A fight is an accumulation of disappointment and anger provoqued by something or someone. Fighting is not a rational behaviour. It's an emotional expression, coming out from a being, especially from someone who has a develloped sense of expression. People who do not feel emotional disappointment and anger do not fight, definitely not for emotional causes. Some of these people are not emotional, others are or became numb. Only it's hard sometimes for emotional people to express their disappointment because they fear showing that they are hurt. They are afraid of looking vulnerable to others, and that's why sometimes, some fights just don't go on.

 

Not being emotional, may or may not be wrong depending on the individual's nature and of course on some of the situations in which an individual is present. However, not being emotional is not a mistake, just another nature. What i consider as a mistake, is numbing ourselves to reality because that will only lead to exhaustion and unhappiness. People who are not willing to experience the lows of life, are also cheating themselves out of experiencing the true highs.

 

After all, passionate feelings fuel our thoughts, our ambitions, our desires, and ultimately provide meaning in our life.